Understanding comes from love.
You might believe that you need to understand another to love them. The truth is you need to love them to understand them.

Inainte ca sa-i spun vietii mele ce vreau sa fac cu ea, trebuia sa las viata sa-mi spuna cine sunt eu. - Parker J. Palmer

Cand un om se priveste prea mult pe sine, ajunge sa nu mai stie care ii este chipul si care masca. -  Pio Baroja

No one is in charge of your happiness but you. - Coelho

When you are unsure how to proceed, stop.
Be still and enter into the silence. Allow your mind to cease its restless thinking. Wait. Let the answer come in its time.

Little children can do the most amazing things with such joy and fun. You were little once too, and knew how to turn everything into a game. So, turn your work into a game, and you will find joy and satisfaction in it. What are some ways you can start being playful with work?

Your heart's deepest desire must be the will of God for he cannot have made you so that your heart should run counter to his will; let him but have his own way with you, and your desire he will give you.